*** BREAKING NEWS BELOW - MOSTLY SOLVED ***
I checked for files with inappropriate ownership in my user's directories with
find ~ ! -user ${USER}
and no files were found. (I edited my post above to the correct command so as to not steer future searchers wrong.)
I found a good description of xorg.config's Section "Device" Options in Appendix B. of
/usr/doc/NVIDIA_GLX_1.0/README.txt
I added
Option "ConnectedMonitor" "DFP"
Option "UseDisplayDevice" "DFP-0"
to /etc/X11/xorg.conf - to override detected monitors, and filter detected devices to my wanted one.
The new account still launches happily, the old account still goes to "No Signal" on the monitor. (aka black screen no picture no image no video for searchers)
I don't think it's a nouveau blacklist issue, because the two accounts share their X configuration. Neither has an .xinitrc , both have .screenrc and .nvidia-settings-rc . The dates on the problem account's .screenrc and .nvidia-settings-rc are long before the trouble started. Also checked: /etc/default/grub does not include "nomodeset".
*** HERE'S THE BIG NEWS ***
I was wrong - kscreen is apparently involved.
user@MACHINENAME:~/.kde/share/apps/kscreen$ cat ffc63669bdc7da792d224395b54cdcb0
[ { "enabled" : true, "id" : "f1ac95c709a439d9ca94b8c86a68e7b2", "metadata" : {
"fullname" : "xrandr-SyncMaster-H1AK500000", "name" : "DVI-D-0" }, "mode" : { "refresh" : 60.0, "size" : { "height" : 1080, "width" : 1920 } }, "pos" : { "x" :
0, "y" : 0 }, "primary" : true, "rotation" : 49 } ]
...see the "49" at the end? Change it to "1" and startx launches KDE with a working monitor. Or, delete the whole file and it will be recreated correctly with a 1, and work.
The user's KDE configuration is only partly back - the 8 desktops have lost their wallpaper, at least - but startx now does not trigger the monitor to say "No Signal", and then go to blank screen sleep.
I figured this out by doing a
~$ ls -Ral > /mnt/tmp/userdir.txt
for each user to a USB flash drive, then using my favorite compare tool (XyWrite) on another machine to compare the lists of files present in the two home directories, and to search for files in the old account dated when the trouble started.
*** PERSEVERANCE FURTHERS ***