I apologize, as soon as I had posted I tried
code:
and it led me to /etc/alternatives/kdm4-config which was correct. I am actually posting this from the remote computer via an xdmcp login to my 2009.1 machine.
I might sound silly here, but I just have to say that this is SO COOL! I've switched over to linux (a month or so now) on all of my machines (built this one just to play with) and there is just something new and interesting to do daily. And the community is just AWESOME. I know that was off topic, but it's just neat and I am loving it.