Well after trying many distros with the same problems, xubuntu 6.06 has gotten me further than any of the others. Since this is the network forum I'll keep it to just that problem.
I can connect to the internet with both Eth0 and wlan0 but after a few seconds the transmission seems to stall. I was watching symantics download and let me tell you it wasn't pretty. About 3-10 seconds after connecting at about 200-500kbps it would just drop and stall. Now I am certain this is not the network because I have tried several situations with 2 different boxes. My other box can connect to the wireless router or the hub with absolutely no problems.
This is the laptop model:
http://support.gateway.com/s/Mobile/...08829sp2.shtml
This is my lspci:
http://pastebin.com/m49da390c
If there is anything i can add or do please let me know.