there are a lot of monitoring tools available on the net, you can just look for them and choose your preferred one. But the connection itself does not depend on the server, so you cannot monitor it on the server. (ok there is a case when the server is really overloaded and cannot respond, otherwise it mainly depends on the network and a lot of other things).
If you want to save server performance you need to keep it running, but we can't tell you what's wrong without knowing anything about it.
First of all you need to find the bottleneck.
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