Thank you all for your help, support and adivce.
After a 3 attempt at a fresh installation Debian Jessie is successfully installed and the WiFi connection is working.
As soon as I rebooted after installing the firmware-realtek_0.43_all.deb the WiFi worked right away.
-:-Installing in "Graphical Expert Mode" was the only way that this worked for me.-:-
The other methods of installation either booted to a black screen or repeated the log in over and over again.
evo2, colorpurple21859, EDDY and Widget: thank you all very much! -