Whether it makes sense or not, it's true that MXLinux allows systemd. If that is unacceptable to you, changing distro to one that doesn't is probably a better choice than trying to remove it.
AntiX is a Debian derivative which is explicitly systemd-free (see
about page), and focused on lightweight WM desktops.
Devuan's defining feature is that it is Debian without systemd (see
first paragraph on homepage). It can do everything Debian does (except run systemd and software that is too tightly coupled to systemd), so is a reasonable choice if you want an Xfce-based system.
For others, see
nosystemd.org - there's a couple dozen distro icons/links at the bottom.